Some reflections..

Last Friday, Jackon, Helen and I had a meeting with Udani.

I remember that at the beginning, Udani asked us how did we tell our parents about the HC. And my answer was I didn't tell them much about it. It's because they don't really care me too much since I got into the university. I know that they are very busy and they want me to be more independent. Thus, I always finish things by myself.

Other than Helen, I seldom talk too much with my parents when they come back home. However, Udani told me that I should always find some time to talk and share something with my parents. I do really want to talk with them but when I see them being very tired after their work, I just don't want to bother them too much so that they can take a rest earlier. Thus, Udani told me that I should something at night which I never do to surprise my parents. What I did in these nights was to help my mother to wash the clothes and the dishes. I seldom do houseworks before, but I think helping them to do the houseworks can reduce their load. I know it's not enough so in the coming future I will do more things for them. I don't want everytime when talking about my family, I will feel sad and say that I do nothing for them. I need and I should do more for my parents, because I do love them!

One thing Udani always reminds me is that we should always smile to everyone you meet and be positive to everything. And we should not think about the result of doing things, but to enjoy the process, because many times we cannot control the result, but we can control what we do. It's really a good idea and I will focus on what I can control in the future.

I have learnt much when talking with Udani. His sharing always impresses me. I will always keep his positive ideas in my mind and I wish we can find some other time to talk with him again so that we can learn more from him.

Finally, there is a good news. I am moving into the dormitory of UMAC tomorrow. I can't wait because I am having a chance to live independent and experience a new life with others. I hope I can meet more people in the dormitory and learn more about living with new friends so that when I am in US, I will know how to socialize better.